*DISCLAIMER: Lots of fertility and pregnancy details ahead...*
When we first moved out here we talked about trying to get pregnant in our last couple of months before we moved back, so that we could deliver and be home for good once the baby was born. However, once we got out here, we saw that so many couples have had kids while they were out here, and had an amazing support structure from the other families on island. This got us thinking that maybe we didn't have to wait, and that we could speed our timeline up a bit. So at the end of April of this year I got off birth control.
Flash forward a month to May of this year and we decided to officially start "trying." I know with my mom it took her over a year to get pregnant with both my sister and I, and I have had several friends who have struggled to get pregnant, so I really didn't have very high expectations for anything to happen right away. After talking with some of my friends who have had success with temperature charting I chose to chart my temperature as well. We had our friends Jen and Ryan come and visit us toward the end of May, and while we had a great time, I was really tired the whole time. I wrote it off to us just being busy with guests. Toward the end of their stay, I started to get excited because my temperatures were staying elevated, meaning a possible pregnancy. I had promised myself I wouldn't test before I was "late," but I caved and tested anyway....negative. So our friends left, I was still tired and my temps were still elevated, so I tested again...negative. I swore I wouldn't test again until I had 18 days of elevated temperatures which pretty much means your pregnant. At the end of that week I reached day 18, but was still not sure I wanted to test again just to see a negative result. So I went to work and had a kinda bad day, and out of nowhere started crying about it. Not something I normally do. So at lunch I went home and took a test. I gave it 3 minutes before I looked. I said a quick prayer then looked at it, and there it was...POSITIVE!! I honestly sat there staring at it for a long time and I just kept saying "thank you God!" over and over again. I remember looking at myself in the mirror trying to tell if I somehow looked pregnant or different in some way lol. I didn't want to tell Johnathon over the phone while he was at work, so I shoved the test in my purse and let it burn a hole there until the end of the day, so I could come home and tell him in person. I always envisioned telling Johnathon in some cute way, but I was so excited I just came and sat on the couch next to him and told him to close his eyes. He did and I pulled the test out of my purse and put it in his hand. He opened his eyes and looked at it, looked at me, and was like "Does this mean your pregnant??!!" I just nodded and we both started laughing uncontrollably. Then, of course, we had to go to the store to buy about 5 more tests just to be sure! Here's our results:
Definitely pregnant :) -the bottom one is the first one I took |
We went for a long walk that night and just talked about how excited we were, and started imagining the future...next to my wedding this was probably the happiest day of my life. :)
We're having a baby! |
My friend on island, Sarah and her husband had been trying for several months to get pregnant, and Sarah had helped me learn to chart my temperatures. We had been comparing notes all month and we knew that both of us had been having elevated temperatures. We met up over the weekend at the dog park, and we were both like "I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL YOU!" and come to find out...we are both expecting our first baby 1 day apart from each other! God really does work in mysterious ways. I was nervous about going through my first pregnancy so far away from my family back in the states, and I still am, but having a friend to experience the same things right along with me has been such a blessing!
The first couple of weeks after we found out were pretty easy...I pretty much just had an intense craving for mac n' cheese at all times. Part of me was hoping to have some kind of pregnancy symptom just so I knew there really was a baby in there. Then I hit 6 weeks...I felt like I got hit by a car. All of a sudden I was going to bed at 8:30pm and waking up exhausted. I really don't think I've ever been this tired in my life. In addition to that I began to feel really nauseous. I guess I've been lucky because I haven't thrown up at all, but I'm gonna go ahead and say that feeling nauseous 24/7 is no picnic. Fortunately, my doctor took pity on me a prescribed me some anti-nausea medication that has really helped, but the nausea and exhaustion are still there and I am at week 12 now. I sure am hoping that I only have a few more weeks left of this before I start to feel better!
One thing I was not ready for was that I found out I was pregnant pretty early on. When I called to make an appointment, I was told they would see me when I was 8 weeks...that was 1 month away!! I was so paranoid that something would happen before my doctors appointment that I took a pregnancy test once a week for a whole month just to make sure it kept saying pregnant on there! lol yes I am a little bit nuts. But I'm pregnant so I get a free pass, right?!
We finally got to have our first ultrasound on July 2nd. Johnathon came with me, and it was one of the coolest things we've ever seen. There floating away on the screen was our little peanut! We got to see the head, the heart beating, and even two little
Our 8week and 3day old baby McClellan- Due February 8th! |
We went ahead and told our immediate families on Father's Day which was a lot of fun. We got each of our dad's bibs that said "I love my grandpa" on them, and watched them open them on Skype! It was so much fun to watch there expressions, and both of our families were very surprised and happy! I waited to tell close friends until after the first ultrasound, and we waited to tell everyone else/put it on social media until 12 weeks. Of course I had to ask Sarah to take our pictures for our announcement and we couldn't have been more pleased with them. Here is the picture we used for our announcement, and a couple of the extra's that I wanted to share:
I was so impressed that Sarah actually got a picture of Sadie looking at the camera! |
This was the one we went with for our announcement |
I can safely say our summer has been pretty low key....mostly involving me laying on the couch napping, then going to bed at 8:30, but we really couldn't be happier. It truly breaks my heart to see other friends struggle with fertility issues, but I know God has a plan and purpose for everyone. It also reminds me how fortunate we are, and we are so blessed to get to be a mommy and daddy to our little one. Thank you to everyone for all the love and support. We can't wait for you all to meet baby McClellan in February!!